A Whole New Story

1. Diey’s Wedding

Roomie dearest, finally you are united with the man you love. I still remember those days at Cyber Townhouse where you stayed up late in the morning chatting with Cibit on Skype. All the ups and downs you have gone through with him was worth it. I am so happy for you both. Really really happy. All the best for the beautiful journey ahead of you

2. Eclipse

Thanks to Emi, I watched Eclipse at the e@Curve (yes, it is our favourite place).  I agree with Ain, it was way better than New Moon, but too many kissing scene. I am definitely drooling over Taylor Lautner aka Jacob, and he is becoming better. Rob Pattionso aka Edward with less pouting, but he looked older. There were a few lines which made the audience laughed and even clapped in the cinema, which I liked. As one of the book readers, this is on the adapted movies that I am satisfied with.

3. Italiannies.

Delicious and full, ’nuff said.

It was a very satisfying day.

• A friend from hometown wrote on her blog that she is no longer friends with her ex. I totally get her point. As of last year, I had crossed out all contacts (including related friends, it’s not like I’m very close to them) with my ex(s).  I can’t no longer live with the drama of ‘owh-we-can-still-be-friends’ which I had once believe. I feel that saying is bullshit now. There is no point staying friends with the ones who had hurt you so much, who had put you through emotional hell back then and still do when you ’scan be friends’. I no longer believe in that crap.
• I wonder why some of us (girls) still cling to the guy that you know had cheated and stabbed you many times. Why put yourself through misery? Is it because of the age factor (my age range), and everybody is getting married left and right, and you feel you NEED to settle down with this guy who has millions of tricks and sweet promises in his head and is set to put you on emotional roller coaster ride? Do you ladies still need this kind of nonsense? Why have stupid fights over stupid things when you can be patient and wait for the right guy to come along? Why do you ladies still need to stick with that cheater, loser or jerk who is messing up with your feelings? And I see some ladies also bearing expenses for their man who is ‘freelancing’ or ‘working on their own’. Get up and smell the coffee people, those kind of guys can’t even afford to have a decent job and you ladies still stick like glue? How can they afford you when you get married??
• Ok stop telling me you are willing to do all of that out of love. Again, that’s crap. At least, if your man has a decent job, he is able to feed himself and you, that’s good enough.
• I’m saying this because of a few conversation I had with a friend and my cousin. We see ladies that got married to losers and end up in divorce and wishing that they never married out of pressure because they can’t bear the stress of a divorce.  They wish they can turn back time and be single, and have fun until Mr. Right come along. It’s sad to see this ok.
• Whatever it is, kembali kepadaNya. My mum always said that setiap orang Allah SWT dah tetapkan jodohnya. Lambat atau cepat je. If you have this feeling like ‘why am I not married yet when my friends and family are’, look back at yourself. Is there some parts of your life that still lack of commitment? I mean, in work, in life, parents? If you see this, you know that there’s a reason why you have not found your Mr. Right yet.
• I know, because I still lack of many things in my life. Especially in the finance matter. I have to be able to control and juggle my expenses, kalau tak, macam mana nak ada family and survive?
• Owh yea, in my both sides of my parents family, the earliest age of marriage is 27. Believe it or not.

Jadi, baik2 sayang, in choosing your man. I know I am.

p/s: Am going to Diey’s wedding today with Emi!